Today, we made history.
To quote President Obama, “I couldn’t be prouder.” This morning, via live streaming on MSNBC, I watched our president sign the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” repeal into law, making it legal for LGBT men and...
View Article30DoK: Define Your Kinky Self by Jade
Jade Rayne’s been bugging everyone for a guest post defining their kinky selves for the writing project Thirty Days of Kink. Next up, Jade of Pieces of Jade. From Jade’s Bio: I am what you see here…and...
View Article30DoK: Define Your Kinky Self by SeaofNeptune
Rayne’s been bugging everyone for a guest post defining their kinky selves for the writing project Thirty Days of Kink. Next up, Neptune from Sea of Neptune. From Neptune’s bio: I’m a beginner toy...
View ArticleSexuality in Schenectady
“I am gay and this is where I stay. We have ALWAYS been a part of this community.” That was on billboards and the sides of buses in Schenectady, New York for at least a year. There might be a few of...
View ArticleSexuality in Schenectady – The Adult Industry Edition
This wasn’t going to be a series. But the more I think about it, the more I realize there is so much more to sexuality in Schenectady than just the cultural views on LGBT people. And since we seem to...
View ArticleExcuse Me for Raining on Your “Life Sucks” Parade
image by QfamilySomething that’s kinda getting to me, lately, is the incessant need to be so damn unique. I’m not talking about the “be your own person” people, or the folks who don’t like labels, or...
View ArticleSex and the Bible
I’m a Conservative Christian. If that strikes you as odd, because I’m writing on a sex blog and I write D/s erotica (among other genres), you’re not alone. How in the name of God can a Conservative...
View ArticleConfidence Makes All the Difference
So there’s this weird revelation taking over my brain, and it’s making me feel kind of stupid. Have you ever noticed I start everything with “so,” as if we were carrying on a conversation, and I can’t...
View ArticleInsecurity: It’s not just a girl thing.
I’m a freelance writer and editor. It started as a hobby, because I love to write, and has since become some semblance of a career. It ebbs and flows as most things in life do. But one thing that...
View ArticleWhat’s so novel about a sex toy?
The first time I ever laid eyes on a sex toy, I was about 15. We had recently moved into a neighborhood that was less than a mile from a brand new mall. Most of my friends lived within five miles of...
View ArticleSometimes there’s only one thing left to say.
Yesterday, Master turned to me and said, “Why don’t you get the dishes done and then get in the shower?” And I snapped, “I’m writing.” I mean, I was…sort of. I was actually surfing the web for a topic,...
View Article30 Days of Kink: Define Your Kinky Self by @AlisonTyler
Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.Any reader who has followed me over...
View ArticleDan Savage is ridiculous.
So today, kinkly.com tweeted about Dan Savage’s assertion on Big Think that monogamy is ridiculous. Just imagine me sitting here screaming “Arrrrrrgh!!!!” with my head in my hands, and my face all...
View ArticleMelen’s Birthday Question Answers! (part 2)
Melen’s passion is photography. This is pic he took of a nearby house that was owned by collie breeders and was abandoned after a fire broke out in the kitchen. The house was still decked out in 70s...
View ArticleSex Toy Review Bloghop Contest & Giveaway!
Sexuality Sanctuary, Beck and her kinks, Kink etc, Kara Sutra reviews, Clitical.com, Insatiable Desire, Heavens Playground, Kinky Biker Mom, Fun with Sammi, GRITS reviews, Novelties toys meets girl and...
View ArticleSimilarities in My Childhood and Master’s Way of Doing Things
When I was a kid, and I’d do something wrong for the first time, my parents would do this thing where they’d sit me down and talk to me about it. They’d say something like, “Okay, kid, what’s going on?...
View ArticleReview Digest – HedoVibes Round Up #24
Photo courtesy of Property Of PotterWelcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product...
View ArticleSex and the Bible
I’m a Conservative Christian. If that strikes you as odd, because I’m writing on a sex blog and I write D/s erotica (among other genres), you’re not alone. How in the name of God can a Conservative...
View ArticleNo Stupid (Kink) Questions: Episode 24 – How to Tell When No Means No
Gandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Insatiable Desire brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice...
View ArticleNo Stupid (Kink) Questions: Episode 25 – Titles
Gandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Insatiable Desire brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice...
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